How to Give Feedback To Maximize Team Performance Without Wrecking Relationships or Sugarcoating 
Start leading like a calm, collected human - giving feedback to your team members shouldn’t feel like walking a tightrope over a pit of drama.

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YES John! I want to calmly give feedback without getting MY knickers in a twist!

Feedback that actually lands. 
No more sugarcoating. 
No more awkward silences. 
Just clear, confident feedback that builds trust. 
The Feedback 3.0 Masterclass 
60 minutes. Bite-sized. Anywhere.

Only $47.
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Feedback 3.0 Workbook. Get summaries, script ideas and practical actions.

Special one-time offer, only $37! (Normally $97)
A workbook to plan practical steps you can take to transform your feedback sessions.

Master the Hot Spot Moments That Derail Teams

Only $57 when you add it now. (Normally $127)
Unlock the tools to stay steady when emotions run high. This Managing Workplace Emotional Hotspots Training Course + Workbook gives you practical dos and don'ts to manage workplace tension without fear, stress, or second-guessing.
With the Feedback 3.0: The Calm Leader’s Online Toolkit, you’ll learn:

How to hold difficult conversations without triggering defensiveness or withdrawal


A dead-simple process to calm yourself before you even speak — goodbye knee-jerk reactions


 Exactly what to say (and how to say it) to build trust and get results


 Why your feedback isn’t landing — and what to do instead, even if emotions run high


 How to stop wasting energy second-guessing yourself and start feeling confident and clear

 Bonus: Free 15-Minute Call to help you apply the learning to your situation.


I purchased your TUF online course, and I’m really thrilled with it. I’m particularly impressed with the pedagogically sound delivery and the overall high quality of the program. I’m especially impressed as a colleague, and I have looked at lots of courses from all over the world, and we reckon yours is a standout on all fronts.

Wendy Baker
Director, NZ Coaching and Mentoring Center

I really recommend TUF. It gives you real insight on how to de-escalate a bad situation and how to help with your emotions. Very helpful tools.

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The course really encourages you to deal with your emotions so that they do not become impediments in dealing with difficult situations or conversations.

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I did a TUF program over 10 years ago when I worked at Fonterra. The skills I learned in the program prepared me so well for difficult and brave conversations that I still think about it 10 years later. 

Elle Taylor,
 Agricultural Consultant

I have completed the TUF program and came away with so many learnings and great tips that I just wanted to say thank you very much. As a business manager and team leader I wish I had come across your work sooner!

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 Emergency Dept Admin

I have completed the TUF program and came away with so many learnings and great tips that I just wanted to say thank you very much. As a business manager and team leader I wish I had come across your work sooner!

Karen (Kaz) Rose
 Emergency Dept Admin

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 Feedback 3.0 Masterclass for Managers Who’ve Gotten Feedback Wrong (More Than Once) — and Want to Make It Right

Learn from real examples of how business owners, managers and team leaders like you have dealt with the challenges of hot topics in a fresh way after doing this training.

FREE 15-minute onboarding call*: Get on a call with John and identify how to best apply these skills in your situation. 
(* time slots limited each week)

Practical Actions based on Neuroscience: Learn the little-known steps you can take to effectively manage your own frustration and help the other person calm down. (Without telling them to calm down which doesn't work!)

Easy to use response prompt ideas: Unlock a wide array of prompts for different situations, empowering you to engage with teams and individuals across various levels of your organization. Repurpose them in your own voice. 

If you don't love it, we'll refund you if requested within 7 days! 

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The TUF program has relevance and impact for our Senior Managers and Clinical Leaders who have applied their learnings in in addressing common interpersonal challenges and in persuading and supporting other clinicians to change their practice and. John’s entertaining style is grounded. His practical examples and exercises were tailored to each person’s context. These managers continuing to practice the TUF skills.




Janice Wilson (Dr)
 Chief Executive Officer
Health Quality and Safety Commission New  Zealand

The TUF training methods has improved staff communication with one another and with clients. They are now more confident in de-escalating tense encounters and feel safer when confronted by challenging situations.

Mike Kelleher
Managing Director

John is a business coach and trainer with over 30 years of corporate experience.

From Catholic priest, teacher and chaplain to psychodramatist for recovering addicts, John now leads Thriving Under Fire, helping people manage emotions at work. Experience across the Pacific, NZ, and Asia shows how powerfully emotions shape — and strain — professional relationships.

He takes a systems approach to human interactions, understanding that everyone in the system (including you) contribute to the successes and the failures. His approach to learning includes fun, compassion and courageously confronting the sneaky gremlins that can ruin relationships.  


John is based in Wellington New Zealand with his wife, Sally and their Low Chen dog, Sachin.

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